Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Marriage

A big CONGRATULATION to a dear friend of mine whom I've known since Primary 1..
Dr. Lorna Chin!!
20 November 2010 - Grand Palace Hotel

Marriage is really a big step to take in a woman's life.
You'll be living with another new family which u have to cope with.
You need to prepare for motherhood.
I'm wishing u all the best with Farrel!

I heard a lot of ppl saying the 1st few years of marriage is the hardest. At first I don't believe that cause I thought that's when the honeymoon period is - but hell I was wrong.

I'm married for a year now and it feels like forever.
Everything happens to fast for me, dated for 1 year and we got married.
Married for 1 year and now we're looking at our first baby girl already - whom for me is the prettiest and cutest little thing alive.

Staying happily married is really not an easy thing.
A lot of dating moments will not be brought down to marriage;
I miss those intimate moment where we used to just hangout cuddling.
I miss those time where u used to care about me a lot more than u are now.
I miss that person who used to trust me and whom I trust with my life.
I miss that person whom I thought I could grow old with.
I miss those moment where u used to hold my hands.
And of course, I miss those moment where u used to make me feel like I'm everything u ever needed.. I miss that the most.

I think now is the time for me to pull my handbreak.
No more BIG moves in my current lifestyle.
So stop asking me, "When are u having ur 2nd child?" cause that won't happen until I'm 100% comfortable with my marriage ;o)

1 Tell me what do u think!:

Jacqie said...

You know, I've been married for 7 years now and somewhere along the 6 to 7 years me and hubby started holding hands again and he even hugs me to sleep. Not something that happened in out 1st and 2nd year of marriage. Just remember one thing, love is a verb. If he ain't going to start holding hands with you and giving you cuddles, you start it first...hahaha...that is if Giselle doesn't get in the way :P