Marriage

A big CONGRATULATION to a dear friend of mine whom I've known since Primary 1..

Dr. Lorna Chin!!

20 November 2010 - Grand Palace Hotel

Marriage is really a big step to take in a woman's life.
You'll be living with another new family which u have to cope with.
You need to prepare for motherhood.
I'm wishing u all the best with Farrel!

I heard a lot of ppl saying the 1st few years of marriage is the hardest. At first I don't believe that cause I thought that's when the honeymoon period is - but hell I was wrong.

I'm married for a year now and it feels like forever.
Everything happens to fast for me, dated for 1 year and we got married.
Married for 1 year and now we're looking at our first baby girl already - whom for me is the prettiest and cutest little thing alive.

Staying happily married is really not an easy thing.
A lot of dating moments will not be brought down to marriage;
I miss those intimate moment where we used to just hangout cuddling.
I miss those time where u used to care about me a lot more than u are now.
I miss that person who used to trust me and whom I trust with my life.
I miss that person whom I thought I could grow old with.
I miss those moment where u used to hold my hands.
And of course, I miss those moment where u used to make me feel like I'm everything u ever needed.. I miss that the most.

I think now is the time for me to pull my handbreak.
No more BIG moves in my current lifestyle.
So stop asking me, "When are u having ur 2nd child?" cause that won't happen until I'm 100% comfortable with my marriage ;o)